What's wrong?

Often we end up in heated arguements.There's always a consistent clash of minds,thoughts that begin to explode at the wrong time,opinions that fights for its survival and all for what? To prove a point of view. And when your opinion is accepted even grudgingly, you feel elated.You've won the first round. You are a winner, because you've said something or looked at a solution which others have not thought of at that point of time.You imagine yourself  to be a winner in other's minds and that's the greatest reward you were looking for before the arguement took some shape. There are also times when you know that you can't push your opinion against another when the other happens to be someone who appreciates your hard work more than your all knowing approach to life. That's it. At times one can be wrong at the right place or right at the wrong place.